Last week, Lochies' brother, Trent, graduated from the Police Academy. He is loving his job and had enjoyed every minute of the training.
Lochie mentioned that he is now thinking that perhaps he might apply as well. He doesn't like the environment of the Cabinet Making industry and is over putting up with being called an idiot and retard.
My stomach twisted when I thought about all the reading and studying of Laws that I know Trent had just done. How could Lochie cope with that considering his learning difficulties?
I showed him some of the books Trent had to read and also copies of his exams.
Lochie said, "But if I'm really fit and good at remembering, why can't I be a Police Officer too?"
Hard to answer because the reason is probably only that the spelling test to get in to the academy challenges most people, let alone someone who sees the words different everytime they look at them.
AFter a lot of talking, I have encouraged him to try but I don't think he will now. He has no confidence now he looked at the paperwork on the application form alone.
"Why are there so many things I can't do? It's not fair."
With the Paralympics on in the background we had discussions on how the only thing holding you back is usually you.
"But," said Loc, "The fact is, that job requires lots of reading and writing and I probably won't be able to do it. Just like these paralympians. They can do amazing things, but sometimes not even the most basic things they really want to do".
"Loc, sometimes we need to focus on the positive things we can do and not the things we can't do".
these conversations go on continually with Loc and I guess they always will. I've got a son with dreams of high achievement and abilities to match, but not always the abilities needed.
On the plus side, he brought home an amazing piece of furniture he made by hand at TAFE. When the last 12 months of his apprenticeship passes soon, I guess there will be more conversations.....
Please keep positive Loc!! You are amazing...
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